All posts by Deb Sherrer

~cultivating continuity and stability in uncertain times

Another day, the waves come and go.

So much has changed, and is still changing, day by day. While the unpredictable is always a part of life, our regular rhythms, habits, and choices that typically support a sense of control or agency break open in moments of profound disruption. Groundlessness appears and we are seemingly dropped into a new, arising reality.

The word pandemic comes from the Greek pandemos, pan (all) demos (people). Spreading across the globe and our nation, we are acutely aware of the vulnerabilities of those disproportionately affected (e.g., the elderly, the immune compromised, the poor and/or uninsured, the newly unemployed, the college students sent home, the imprisoned, the health care workers and grocery store clerks serving on the front lines, instead of “sheltering in place,” the children without adequate adult support and/or nutrition.) That said, all people know fear and worry in a worldwide health crisis.

This morning as I was reflecting on the disruption of daily life, defined as I/we knew it pre-pandemic, I realized again that mindfulness practices, like yoga and meditation are meant for these times, especially. While everything shifts around us and within us, one can go to their familiar mat and practice moving with breath and awareness and come home to the present moment. We can meet whatever is arising with curiosity, kindness, and care. This nurtures its own form of stability and continuity, in motion or stillness. Our non-judgmental breath holds the same invitations and metaphors as before, of receiving and releasing, freshness and unburdening; our mat is a zone of safety; and the body is a container that can only live in the present moment. This helps us to ground here, where a felt sense of safety can be accessed or cultivated. These practices also allow us to observe and pull back from the ruminating “what ifs” and catastrophic cliffs of of the wandering, spooked mind. These practices of homecoming allows us to look out and remember: The sky is still spacious and the ground is still solid under our feet. A loving, aware connection to self, and in extension shared with others through loving-kindness, can help to fortify us in an unfamiliar landscape. And we can practice again and again, accessing the peace within and our ever-present essential goodness.

May we all be safe.
May we all be free of suffering.
May we all be healed.
May we all be at peace.

Thich Nhat Hanh

artist unknown (Yes, I can’t read the signature. Apologies.)

Days of Love

Only from the heart can you touch the sky. ~Rumi

May you know many loves:
the love as light and airborne as bird bones
the love as vibrant as daffodils and red tulips 
the love as old as the mountain tops etched into 
an ever-changing palette of sunrises and sunsets,
the love as steady as the moon’s and sun’s rhythms
traveling through blue skies, behind cloud cover,   
the love as fresh as spring rain on your skin
or the taste of snowflakes,  
the love of a heartbeat and warm palm, fingers interlaced
that gently whisper: I see you. You are never alone. 
You are loved many times. 

Rebecca Solnit on the meanings of lost…

~The light that does not touch us, does not travel the whole distance,
the light that gets lost, gives us the beauty of the world.

Lost really has two disparate meanings. Losing things is about the familiar falling away, getting lost is about the unfamiliar appearing. There are objects and people that disappear from your sight or knowledge or possession; you lose a bracelet, a friend, a key. You will still know where you are…Or you get lost, in which case the world has become larger than your knowledge of it. Either way, there is a loss of control. Imagine yourself streaming through time shedding gloves, umbrellas, wrenches, books, friends, homes, names. This is what the view looks like if you take a rear-facing seat on the train. Looking forward you constantly acquire moments of arrival, moments of realization, moments of discovery. The wind blows your hair back and you are greeted by what you have never seen before. The material falls away in onrushing experience.

Quote and excerpt from A Field Guide to Getting Lost, Rebecca Solnit
Photo courtesy of E. Robinson and C. Robinson, Japan adventure.

Befriending life as it arises, in ourselves and others.

Remembering blue blossoms in December.

Reflections from Rachel Naomi Remen:

I’ve spent many years learning how to fix life, only to discover at the end of the day that life is not broken. There is a seed of greater wholeness in everyone and everything. We serve life best when we water and befriend it. When we listen before we act.

In befriending life, we do not make things happen according to our own design. We uncover something that is already happening in us and around us and create conditions to enable it. Everything is moving toward its place of wholeness…Befriending life is more about harmlessness than control. Harmlessness requires connection. It means listening to life from a place in us that is connected to the wholeness around us. The place in us that is also whole.

sacred earth

following the light

all that you touch you change
all you change, changes you
~Octavia Butler

How can we, future ancestors, align ourselves with the most resilient practices of emergence as a species?
~adrienne maree brown, Emergent Strategy, Shaping Change, Changing Worlds

We are all responsible for and to this moment. Our decisions today will impact the next generations in unprecedented ways, known and unimagined.